I know it’s tempting to scan something like this and skip it because it looks like a bunch of boring shit you don’t care about. But that would be a mistake.

It’s a new year, which means it’s time for the organization, planning, and admin nobody actually enjoys. And yes, that’s what we’re doing today. But stick with me, because this is the stuff that makes this space make sense and keeps it feeling good instead of chaotic.

So, in the spirit of the new year, a few things for you.

First, a sincere thank you.

Unfiltered & Fed is here to stay.

This has quietly become my favorite place to create, and it’s grown into something I never really expected. I know the word “community” can sound trite or a little cringe, but that’s honestly what this is now.

Just last week, I had dinner at Dōgon with some of the folks from the group trip to Portugal, that I hosted last year. We didn’t just travel together. We stayed in touch. We became friends. Now we’re sitting around a table in DC sharing bites and trading stories.

That doesn’t happen without this space.

So truly, thank you for being here and for showing up so genuinely.

Second, I’m tweaking membership benefits and tiers.

Nothing dramatic. Nothing chaotic. Just thoughtful changes I believe will benefit everyone.

I’m opening up two of my favorite resources to all subscribers. Historically, these were reserved for paid subs. Not anymore.

The first is the infamous Google Form.

Yes, that one.

The one I sent to the man who is now bae.

It’s now available to everyone, but you do have to read to the end of this post to get the link. Consider that a tiny trust exercise.

The second is my Master Map.

My team updates this every month after I travel, with all the restaurants, activities, and hotels I genuinely loved around the world. It’s basically a living archive of my travel brain.

Open it. Bookmark it so it lives in your Google Maps. Come back to it when you’re planning a trip or daydreaming your way through a workday. It’s meant to be a living resource.

And about subscription tiers.

We’re also making a few updates, so everything feels clearer and more intentional.

Free Subscribers still get access to all public posts, guides, essays, and experiences.

Paid Subscribers get early access to group trips and experiences, bonus essays, and behind-the-scenes tea.

And I’m introducing a new Founding Membership Tier.

Founding members get everything above, plus guaranteed first access to every Unfiltered & Fed trip and experience, always. On top of that, founding members receive $300 off every group trip, meaning one trip more than covers the cost of the membership.

If you already know you want to keep traveling with this community, this tier is for you.

If you’re already a member, you’ll be able to switch tiers easily in your settings.

One more important thing.

Please take the group trip survey.

We’re in the very early stages of planning the next round of group trips, and I can’t build experiences that actually make you feel fed, nourished, and excited without your input.

These are genuinely the most important questions I will ask you all year. Click the link. Fill it out. Say what you mean.

And finally, something I’m very excited about.

After a couple of years of quietly testing this concept, I’m formally launching a supper club!!!!

We’ll be starting in the DC area and we’re looking at March for the first event. I cannot wait to eat with y’all and connect in real life around a table.

More details soon.

Thank you for being here and for growing this thing with me.

1 Thing I’m Loving Lately

I’m trying to read more on paper this year as my Kindle is lovely, but it doesn’t emit blue light and after some testing I’ve found that it does indeed fuck up my sleep.

And my first paper book of 2026 was sooo good! Our Vicious Oaths by N.E. Davenport is sexy with lots of tension but also humor, strong af women who seize their destiny, and Black af.

Got me fantasizing about buff fae men who wear grills.

That’s all for now. Thanks for sticking with me through the unsexy but necessary stuff. More fun ahead, I promise.

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